When we ask someone to "bear with me/us," we are essentially seeking patience from them. However, there are many ways in which we can convey this message using different words. For example, we can say "please wait a moment," "let me catch up," or "hang on a second." Similarly, we can request patience by saying "give me a moment," "just a second," or "please be patient." Other phrases that can be used include "stay with me," "hear me out," and "hold on a minute." The key is to communicate effectively and seek understanding from others by using language that is clear and concise.