It's wonderful that we complement each other, and aren't equal in many ways. We're like Day and Night, Sun and Moon, Ocean and Land. It's not for us to strive to become equal, my friend; but to honor our differentiating and complementing qualities, and respect each other for who we are. It's our complementing differentness that paints our world so beautiful - with multiple mesmerizing and magical colors. So be happy that we're different, and do not change. You're good as you are! Cheers!
Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate