The antonyms for the phrase "breaking to" are "gradual adaptation to" or "natural conformity with." In contrast to breaking something to make it conform to a particular direction, gradual adaptation is the process of slowly adjusting to a new situation or set of beliefs without causing harm or discomfort. Natural conformity denotes conforming to established norms or conventions, without the need for force or coercion. Gradual adaptation and natural conformity imply a more harmonious and less violent approach than breaking to. They also suggest a willingness to compromise and cooperate, rather than impose one's will upon others.