The antonyms for the phrase "do as told" are numerous, as there are many ways in which one can refuse or choose not to follow instructions. Some possible antonyms include disobey, ignore, neglect, disregard, resist, rebel, dissent, balk, question, challenge, defy, reject, and oppose. Depending on the context, some of these antonyms may be more or less appropriate than others. For example, disobey implies a deliberate act of defiance, while neglect suggests a lack of attention or care. Regardless of the precise antonym used, the implication is that someone is not following or carrying out instructions in the way that they were intended.