"Shame" is an intense emotion that can cause discomfort and embarrassment to individuals. When we hold someone to shame, we essentially make them feel guilty or embarrassed by their actions. Luckily, there are many synonyms that can be used in place of "hold to shame" such as blame, rebuke, reproach or berate. Each of these words implies a sense of disapproval and criticism towards someone's behavior or actions. Other options include admonish, chastise, condemn, or reprimand. No matter the synonym used, it is important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, while still holding the person accountable for their actions.