The phrase "Indian giver" is commonly used to describe someone who gives a gift or item, only to later take it back. However, the term has negative and offensive connotations, as it stereotypes and diminishes the cultural practices of Indigenous peoples. Instead, we can use alternative phrases such as "recanter", "withdrawer" or "retracting giver" to describe the same situation. These phrases accurately describe the act of taking back a gift without perpetuating harmful stereotypes. It's important to be mindful of the language we use and strive to use inclusive and respectful terms, especially when referring to marginalized communities.