"Neid" (German for envy or jealousy) is a complex emotion that can bring out the worst in people. If you want to avoid using this negative term, there are several synonyms that you can choose from. For instance, you can use "Afgunst" (Dutch), "Invidia" (Italian), "Jalousie" (French), or "Envidia" (Spanish). Alternatively, you can use "Resentment", "Bitterness", "Discontent", or "Grudge". These synonyms convey a similar meaning without the negative connotations of "neid". Whatever word you choose, it's important to remember that envy is an unhealthy and unproductive emotion that can lead to unhappiness and discontentment.