The phrase 'stood in with' refers to someone who is in good terms with another person or group, often for personal gain. The antonyms for 'stood in with' can be unfamiliar, alienated, estranged, disowned, exiled, banished, aloof, detached, isolated, or removed. These words imply a rupture in a relationship, severe disagreement, or a lack of interaction between individuals. Someone who is estranged from a group or exiled from it has no connection with the people in it. In contrast, someone who is unfamiliar with a group has no knowledge of it, while someone who is aloof or detached has chosen to stay away from it.