"Affectedly refined" is a phrase used to describe behavior or mannerisms that are excessively artificial or pretentious. Synonyms for this phrase include "artificially polished," "ostentatiously elegant," "over-refined," "pseudo-sophisticated," and "contrivedly cultured." These synonyms emphasize the exposed fakeness and insincerity of such behavior. Additionally, "affectedly refined" can also be replaced with "unrealistically elegant," "artificially genteel," "affectedly mannered," and "excessively formal." Each synonym conveys a sense of fabricated behavior, highlighting how someone can overdo or exaggerate their mannerisms due to their perceived sophistication. These synonyms are useful for those seeking to communicate their frustration or dislike for such behaviors succinctly and with emphasis.