The phrase "letted in on" implies the act of revealing a secret or giving someone access to information they were previously unaware of. Antonyms for this phrase include "kept in the dark," meaning to remain uninformed or excluded from knowledge, and "withheld," which means to intentionally keep something from someone. Also, "concealed" describes the act of purposely hiding information or keeping it secret. Other antonyms include "denied," which means to refuse access or to contradict a claim, and "refused to share," which means to withhold or keep information private. These antonyms highlight the opposite end of the spectrum from "letted in on," emphasizing the act of limiting or blocking access to information.