The phrase "catching the act" refers to witnessing or discovering someone in the act of doing something, often something inappropriate or illegal. Antonyms for this phrase could include words and phrases like neglecting, missing, overlooking, ignoring, or being oblivious to. These antonyms imply the opposite of "catching the act," where someone is not actively paying attention or noticing what is going on around them. While catching someone in the act is often associated with detecting wrongdoing, the antonyms suggest a lack of awareness or vigilance. Being above suspicion or not paying attention can have both positive and negative connotations depending on the context.