The phrase "doth the honors" means to perform the duties of a host or hostess. Some antonyms for this phrase could be "neglecting the duties," "disregarding the guests," or "ignoring the responsibilities." These words indicate a lack of attention or care towards guests or the role of the host or hostess. Other antonyms could include "abdicating the responsibilities," "shirking duties," or "shunning the guests," all of which suggest a deliberate avoidance of social obligations. In contrast, synonyms for "doth the honors" could be "playing the role of the host," "performing the duties of a hostess," or "entertaining guests with grace.