Reciprocity means you never impose on others what you would not choose for yourself. It also means you treat others as you would like others to treat yourself. In my view, you should go one step beyond this 'Golden Rule' of Reciprocity, and always treat others as they themselves wish to be treated. And that's the 'Platinum Rule' of Reciprocity in 21st Century!
Deodatta V. Shenai-Khatkhate