"Crying shames" is a phrase that indicates deep regret, embarrassment, or sorrow over one's actions or behavior. The antonyms for this phrase would include words like pride, happiness, confidence, and contentment. Instead of feeling ashamed of one's actions, the opposite reaction would be to feel a sense of pride or satisfaction. Instead of crying about a situation, one would feel happiness and joy. Confidence would replace the feeling of embarrassment, and contentment would replace sorrow. These opposite emotions can be achieved by looking at situations in a positive light and finding ways to grow and learn from them instead of dwelling on the negative emotions.