The phrase "calling the tune" means to be in charge or to be the one making important decisions. However, there are several antonyms that can be used in its place. The opposite of calling the tune would be to follow someone else's lead, to be subservient or to be submissive. Other possible antonyms include being a follower, being subordinate, or being under someone else's control. When someone is not in charge, they might describe themselves as being at the mercy of others, taking orders or being dictated to. In contrast, when someone is independent and making all of their own decisions, they may describe themselves as being their own boss or leader.