The phrase 'cross bear' refers to someone who carries a burden or an annoyance. There are many antonyms for this phrase that refer to people who are easy to work with or who help to ease burdens. One such antonym is 'benevolent' which refers to someone who is kind-hearted and generous. Additionally, 'affable' is another antonym that refers to someone who is easy to work with or who possesses a friendly disposition. Other antonyms for 'cross bear' include 'amiable,' 'cordial,' 'agreeable,' and 'amicable.' These antonyms describe people who are approachable, cooperative and who are pleasant to be around.